A close relative has a special day tomorrow (in addition to Valentine's Day), so I was going to drive to Town A to buy a balloon bouquet and then drive said bouquet to Town B to deliver them to close relative. There are no balloon sellers in Town B save for a florist.
I added the cost of gas to drive to A and B and home again, and figured it was much cheaper to call Town B's florist and have their bouquet delivered.
Emergency expense two days ago -- $96 at vet.
I had this in my emergency fund so no sweat and kitty is better.
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I had a pet who was once very ill; he was old; rather than treat him to eke out another year, I babied him at home and he died two months later without any medical intervention. As I said, he was old. I have mixed feelings about this.
Another time, I threw a bunch of money at the ER Vet for a 17 year old cat. He died two days later. The vet told me that all of the intervention would have maybe bought another year, maybe. Sigh.
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The Road That Was Cheaper
February 13th, 2008 at 05:33 pm
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February 13th, 2008 at 07:39 pm 1202931552
As for the older cat, I was surprised at the extensive last ditch effort to save him; at the time, it was a comfort to know everything possible had been done.
So -- two extremes -- . Not much to do.
February 14th, 2008 at 06:08 am 1202969295
February 14th, 2008 at 02:52 pm 1203000776
My other pet had a more "hospice-oriented" process; I let him eat all the food he loved and hoped for a soft landing. It happened. I let him "wind down" without any medical intervention and rescue. And, honestly, some of this was a financial decision.
Both of these pets were older.
As they told me at the emergency vet's -- "He enjoyed his time with you." I thought that was a really perfect thing to say and it gave me much comfort.
Thanks all for the feedback
February 14th, 2008 at 07:01 pm 1203015712
I have had an old dog, and an old horse who were suffering, and I had the vet put them down. I also knew that was the right thing. If they had been young animals, I would have spent the money to get them well, but these animals were very old, and were not going to get well.
You have to follow your heart, and not make them suffer the anxiety of separation, and fear. Dying at home, surrounded by the people they love, in a familiar place is much kinder, as long as they are NOT in pain.
February 14th, 2008 at 07:03 pm 1203015812
I have had an old dog, and an old horse who were suffering, and I had the vet put them down. I also knew that was the right thing. If they had been young animals, I would have spent the money to get them well, but these animals were very old, and were not going to get well.
You have to follow your heart, and not make them suffer the anxiety of separation, and fear. Dying at home, surrounded by the people they love, in a familiar place is much kinder, as long as they are not in pain.